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jackpowerx:

jedees:

jedees:

Be sure to “full view” each page because (at least on my computer) the black in some of the pages is just GONE. Anyway, my design final. A comic attempting to address society’s failure of telling young boys (and girls too sometimes) that abuse/violence/bullying is NOT an appropriate way to show affection…

REBLOGGING AGAIN because I figured out what was up with the colors  uhghhsdlkf

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Filed under feminism truth tw: abuse violence against women rape culture

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The Pink Ribbon

iamateenagefeminist:

The pink ribbon is one of our most universal symbols, nearly all of us see it as the “symbol” of breast cancer awareness, but that’s not where it started. 

Charlotte Haley developed a light peach colored ribbon for breast cancer survivors. She envisioned it to be a symbol of hope and strength. The original ribbon was meant as a way for survivors to connect with each other. She passed on her idea to the National Cancer Institute as a fundraising tactic, and they used it for several years.   

Self magazine and Estee Lauder makeup company asked Haley for permission to use her ribbon on their products to raise money for breast cancer. Haley refused, seeing this as the commodification of breast cancer. In order to circumvent Haley’s wishes, the ribbon’s color was changed from peach to pink. Estee Lauder and Self  proceeded to use the ribbon on their products. 

The ribbon’s present day use is just as problematic as its origins  The ribbon has been used and exploited so much that it has almost lost all of it’s original meaning. It is no longer used as a way for survivors to heal and connect with each other, but as a way to sell products. How many products have you seen this month with the pink ribbon on it? These company’s usually only donate a portion of their profit or cap the amount they donate to actual causes that help women with breast cancer.   

Breast cancer affects real women, it takes a very real toll on women. These women are often ignored in “awareness” campaigns that focus more on products, pink, and the ribbon than on the stories of women who are living with or have survived cancer. 

When’s the last time you saw an awareness campaign that told the stories of women who survived cancer? When’s the last time you saw a campaign that focused on making a real difference in the lives of women living with cancer? 

Now think about the last campaign you saw that focused on buying a product, or wearing a ribbon, or celebrating boobs. Ask yourself what those things do to help women who are living with breast cancer, and you probably won’t be able to find an answer. 

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Also men can get breast cancer too and are ignored and stigmatized because it’s considered a “woman’s disease.”

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Filed under breast cancer feminism pink ribbon breast cancer awareness month

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An 8-year-old girl camper began swimming near the edge of the pool by me. She was a tiny girl with a bubbly personality, and she was very attached to me. Upon seeing us talking, the boy swam over and started chasing her around the water. It was clear from the way she was trying to get away from him and her screeching that she wanted to be left alone — her body language and tense demeanor should have showed that she was uncomfortable — but if that wasn’t enough of a clue, the “stop” she yelled in protest should have been enough for him to go away.

That’s when it really hit me how serious the situation was. I could immediately picture it escalating. I didn’t see an 8-year-old girl and an 11-year-old boy anymore; I saw the two of them as fully grown and matured adults. The girl was still small and skinny, and the boy was large enough to overpower her with little effort. I could see her running away from him, trying to push off his advances in a more sexual situation, but him refusing to believe that she really wanted him to stop. I saw him ignoring her physical protests right along with the verbal ones, convinced she wanted him there. It horrified me.

I reprimanded him immediately, insisting that when someone asks you to stop, it’s important to listen. Almost seconds later, a male counselor standing by the same section of the pool told him not to listen to me and to continue his pursuit of this little girl, despite her obvious protests. Here were two boys, roughly 10 years apart in age, but with the same views on women: that consent doesn’t matter. It’s not a generational thing: this mindset has clearly been ingrained into the public psyche from an early age. How often are we told not to take no for an answer? How often do we see children pestering their parents about getting a new toy until they eventually give in? How often do we hear about a woman’s whims coming with her menstrual cycle? How often do we see on television shows and in movies a woman “changing her mind” about a man who is persistent enough or who just proves himself worthy? The idea that a woman will change her mind is so ingrained that we can’t always recognize it at first.

Jackie Klein, A Lesson In Consent For All Ages, (via feminspire)

Please teach your kids, especially your sons, from an early age to respect others space and bodies.

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Filed under YES. this feminism patriarchy consent harassment

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sonofbaldwin:

The so-called “pro-life” movement’s philosophy.

One of the best political cartoons that I’ve seen. 

You know what pisses me off about this?  Really, REALLY pisses me off?  That’s George (H.W.) Bush holding that umbrella.  He was president 1981-1989.  Do you get that?  
It means that the right have not budged an inch on their ridiculous pro-foetus, anti-actual-persons position in THIRTY GODDAMN YEARS. We should not still be having this argument! Thirty year old political cartoons should be bafflingly opaque, not crystal clear!

^ Reblogging again for that comment.

Oh I’m reblogging this again because I noticed a mistake in the commentary that I didn’t correct last night: Bush Sr. was President from 1989-1993.  He was VICE-President from 1981-89.  That’s all, otherwise commentary is badass.

yellow-dress:

teratomarty:

one-angry-liberal:

sonofbaldwin:

The so-called “pro-life” movement’s philosophy.

One of the best political cartoons that I’ve seen. 

You know what pisses me off about this?  Really, REALLY pisses me off?  That’s George (H.W.) Bush holding that umbrella.  He was president 1981-1989.  Do you get that?  

It means that the right have not budged an inch on their ridiculous pro-foetus, anti-actual-persons position in THIRTY GODDAMN YEARS. We should not still be having this argument! Thirty year old political cartoons should be bafflingly opaque, not crystal clear!

^ Reblogging again for that comment.

Oh I’m reblogging this again because I noticed a mistake in the commentary that I didn’t correct last night: Bush Sr. was President from 1989-1993.  He was VICE-President from 1981-89.  That’s all, otherwise commentary is badass.

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Filed under George Bush pro-lifers pro life pro-life political cartoon political cartoons fetus abortion pro-choice pro choice personhood feminism misogyny

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yellow-dress:

teratomarty:

one-angry-liberal:

sonofbaldwin:

The so-called “pro-life” movement’s philosophy.

One of the best political cartoons that I’ve seen. 

You know what pisses me off about this?  Really, REALLY pisses me off?  That’s George (H.W.) Bush holding that umbrella.  He was president 1981-1989.  Do you get that?  
It means that the right have not budged an inch on their ridiculous pro-foetus, anti-actual-persons position in THIRTY GODDAMN YEARS. We should not still be having this argument! Thirty year old political cartoons should be bafflingly opaque, not crystal clear!

^ Reblogging again for that comment.

yellow-dress:

teratomarty:

one-angry-liberal:

sonofbaldwin:

The so-called “pro-life” movement’s philosophy.

One of the best political cartoons that I’ve seen. 

You know what pisses me off about this?  Really, REALLY pisses me off?  That’s George (H.W.) Bush holding that umbrella.  He was president 1981-1989.  Do you get that?  

It means that the right have not budged an inch on their ridiculous pro-foetus, anti-actual-persons position in THIRTY GODDAMN YEARS. We should not still be having this argument! Thirty year old political cartoons should be bafflingly opaque, not crystal clear!

^ Reblogging again for that comment.

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Filed under George Bush pro-lifers pro life pro-life political cartoon political cartoons fetus abortion pro-choice pro choice personhood feminism misogyny